Frequently asked questions

Code Red helps families and loved ones through every stage of addiction: from the first worries, through crisis and treatment, to the months and years afterward. You can reach out at any moment, whether your loved one is still using, refusing help, in treatment or back home. My five services are family coaching, case management, interventions, recovery coaching and live-in counseling. Wherever you are right now, that is where we start.

Primarily, the families and loved ones of someone with an addiction - parents, partners, siblings, adult children. Many of the families we work with have already invested in high-quality treatment abroad and are now looking for structured, ongoing support that treatment centers don't typically provide once the program ends.

Family coaching is direct support for you as a parent - understanding what's happening, how to respond, and how to look after yourself in the process. Case management means we coordinate the wider picture: treatment providers, aftercare, and the professionals involved, so nothing falls through the cracks. Recovery coaching supports the person in recovery directly, in the everyday reality after treatment. Intervention is a structured, professionally guided conversation when a loved one won't seek help on their own. A live-in counselor stays in the family home for a while, offering calm, structure and support day and night during the hardest stretch.

We simply listen. There's no assessment checklist and no pressure to commit to anything. We want to understand your situation, what's already been tried, and what kind of support would actually be useful to you before we talk about next steps.

Yes, I work with parents. Is your child an adult? That's fine, most of the parents I work with have adult children.

Yes. We regularly work alongside treatment centers, therapists, physicians, and, for many of the families we support, private wealth advisors and family offices who want a trusted partner to refer to for aftercare.

This is one of the most common situations we're brought in for. You don't need your loved one's cooperation to start getting support yourself - and in many cases, a family that responds differently is what eventually opens the door. When appropriate, we can also guide a structured intervention.

There's no fixed program length. Some families need a handful of sessions to get their footing in a crisis; others stay connected for a year or more as their loved one moves through recovery. We shape the support around what the situation actually needs, not a fixed package.

Yes. Discretion is built into how we work, not treated as an afterthought - this matters especially to the internationally based, high-net-worth families we support, for whom privacy and reputation are a real concern.

Yes. Alongside our Dutch client base, we support families worldwide, in English, either in person or remotely.

Esther is a certified family therapist and addiction specialist - and she has also lived this as a mother and a partner. That combination of professional training and lived experience is at the center of how Code Red works: expertise, without losing sight of what it actually feels like to be the family member.

Reach out through the contact form or by email, and we'll schedule a first conversation - no obligation, no forms to fill in beforehand. From there, we'll figure out together what kind of support fits your situation.